Guys. how long after meting a woman you are interested in, would you want her to kiss you?

whats too soon. what's too long.

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im asking how long from the time you meet. in terms of days or weeks or months.

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  • Actually there is no set time for me on when I want what to happen. She can kiss me the first day we meet, but depending on the tone or context it might change the way I think about it. That's actually the important part in this. Reading the mood. Does it fit there, or not? It's a judgment call.

    Sorry I can't be more specific.

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    • thats pretty specific, thanks:)

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    • Oh good. A fellow cynic, like me.

    • lol ;)

What Guys Said 4

  • If it is a girl I am interested in than the first date is fine. Doesn't have to be making out just a normal kiss haha

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    • what if you have not dated yet. but have hung out for a while. do you have to date first? and if not how 'long' would you want to wait?

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    • oh thank you . we've already kissed. I was just curious ;)

    • Oh well good :P

  • well I would prefer to do it myself, but if that wasn't an option, ASAP!

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  • I gentle kiss on the cheek is fine on the first date, second date latest. As for making out?; 3rd or 4th date maybe?

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    • what if you guys haven't gone and dates. just hung out? does she have to wait for a date?

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    • hmm.. I don't think I know the difference. I mean I've never pecked anyone on the cheek.

      kissing isn't really sexual for me, its more of a sensual thing.

      but I don't really get anything out of it if it doesn't last long. I like to melt into it for a while till I'm not thinking about anything else. I had just assumed lengthy kisses become sexual for guys by default. a peck doesn't seem long enough to count as affection.

      idk I made several assumptions I should nothave as its your answer. not mine

    • Well, I guess I was thinking of how you would kiss hello/goodbye an aunt or a grandma. A simple token of affection versus kissing on the lips, which is obviously more than affection. Sorry if I confused the whole thing! LOL.

  • I'm an old fashioned guy, so I stick by the 3rd date rule usually. However, if a girl seems interested in kissing before that point, and I really like her, I'll kiss her sooner.

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    • im asking about her kissing you.

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    • As soon as she wants to after realizing she has feeling for me. I'm not picky.

    • cool.thanks.

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