When guys date a girl and are looking for a relationship, do they move slowly at the beginning to figure it out?
I met this guy on my own, we had one date. I thought we had a good connection. He asked me if I want to keep talking and I said yes and he said good.
We are talking but not a ton. The date was a few days ago, we spoke twice since. He told me straight out that he is looking for something serious. We did not do anything sexual that might screw it up.
He told a friend he is into me, and he made it sound like we would keep talking. After one date I don't expect daily contact yet...could he be thinking about things or just not like me?
The thing is, not speaking to him for a day or two makes me worried..if I don't hear from him in a day or two I am going to assume he is not interested?
We spoke a lot. Really seemed to connect, etc.
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I would give this a few weeks before I would decide if he was not interested.
I can say that you can have a great first date and just not have it pan out to anything more. Most of us can have fun and connect to someone though later we realize that something is not quite there to pursue a relationship with the person. In fact, for me, I would have to sleep on it before I knew if I really wanted to date someone again. Usually right after a nice date, I would be telling myself to ignore things that deep down were bothering me. However, after sleeping on it, I would know whether I could ignore something or it was a deal breaker. Good luck.0