We met online, and she looked pretty in her pics. Of coarse she looks different in real life, they all do lol. When we met up for a date I still had a good time with her, but I don't think she's what I'm looking for when I'd like a long term relationship.
She's a really great woman and all, but I just don't see me being with her... Now she's texting me ALL day and EVERYDAY asking what I'm currently doing. I have absolute no clue how to tell her to "chill out" a little bit.
How can I tell her this without her being hurt?
Me: "Hey Ashley, I think you're a really cool girl and I had fun spending time with you on our date. But I don't see us being together in the future. I apologize if this disappoints you."
13 hours later...
Her: "Why would you message me after our date, if you feel I'm not good enough. If you were uninterested you should have just left me alone."
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If she really likes you which she seems to do, there is honestly no way you can tell her without hurting her feelings even if you are nice about it.
The only option I can think of if you want her to top texting you is to call her and tell her, "You seem like a great woman, but I do not see myself making further romantic plans with you in the future." If she does not answer leave a voice mail.
Also if you are really tired of her texting you, download one of those fake number apps, and when she text you, tell her that that is your new number from the texting app.
If she keeps bothering you after that I would just block her0