i started talking to this guy online today, did not realize that even though he is from my area he works a two hour plane ride away-his profile was a bit misleading.
he called me and we spoke on the phone for two hours. then he asked me to fly to meet him. after one conversation! and when I said I can't because I have responsibilities right now he got mad at me and said I have a bad attitude, basically.
wtf! I do not feel comfortable traveling to meet someone I spoke to once! this is not normal is it?
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Some people are just crazy online. Flying over to meet someone is a big commitment.
However, I do try to meet people quickly online(locals we're talking here) as many girls just want to chat online and never meet up and it is a waste of time. But I usually plan out a meet that works with both of our schedules. A phone conversation is preferred but I still force myself to remain understanding to the fact that many people online have social problems and are uncomfortable talking on the phone.
I honestly feel that if you can't meet someone either based on their profile or after messaging a little bit that you should take down your profile then as you will be wasting a lot of guys' time and will be considered another one of those girls who just want attention over the internet to make themselves feel better.0