I was just wondering. Is it hard for most guys to know when to kiss a girl? Do you kinda plan it? I dated some guy... and he kissed me at the WORST times. Like mid sentence. I couldn't tell if he was just a player trying to get some action or just really shy! I'm now pretty sure he was just shy.
I sort of gave it some thought and realized that I don't usually initiate first kisses... maybe that's something I should work on. I usually wait to initiate kisses with a guy til I really know we're a couple (and not just dating) and that he likes me back.
I usually never make the first move though... is it hard? Do you plan it ahead of time?
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The situation you described is weird. Never heard of that.
I will say though that many girls have different views on first kisses. I kissed one girl at the end of a first date and she seemed like she got a little of that "melt" feeling which was good.
Another girl I kissed on the cheek at the end of the first date got pissed off. So it's pretty random which can make a guy not know.
I personally just kiss at the end of a first date. I'm very hit or miss so I'd rather know right away if she's interested. Girls who are "on the fence" tend to never make up their minds and I don't have time for that. It's a kiss... it's not sex here.0