I'm starting to wonder if I'm going about it wrong. A lot of the girls who I show interest in end up having boyfriends already. Which from my experience, this causes girls to not want to keep in touch with me even if I try the friendship route so I usually go the direct route and show my interest in dating them and asking them out. So I don't know. It would be nice to have a female friend or two but I never seem to run into a girl who doesn't have a boyfriend and I guess I've never figured out how to form a friendship with a girl who does have a boyfriend since I've never convinced one. Anyways, which is the better way. Keep doing what I'm doing which is trying to get dates with girls or should I be friends with them and hope they will be available at some point?
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It might actually hurt you more just being friends with them and seeing them with their boyfriends! It would be suffering in silence, and trust me that is more painful to deal with, so no letting them go, and not really being friends is the best way, however if you are the type though that can be friends with these girls and not get really upset when you seem them flirt or have boyfriends then you can do the friend route. It all depends. Me, I like a guy right now and I can't stand it when he flirts with girls, so I don't think I could be friends with him, just because I would be upset too much. It would bring more sadness than happiness hanging out with him. What you can do is when you see these girls tell them to call you or text you when they are free of relationships. Like, I said your more than likely saving yourself a lot of heartache by letting them go :) Just keep trying and eventually a single girl will pop up. Remember that opportunities are always rising, so don't think your always going to run into girls that are in relationships. Hope I helped! Good luck sweetie! <3 one love0