I dress nice smell good good job no kids love able and women flock around me but no one dates me. I always hear you such a good man well damn why can't I get a date. It's one girl I'm really interested in but she never puts forth no effort to go out with me. I lost 3 relationships and all 3 women say you are a great guy but... If I'm so great why are you leaving me. Help be honest please
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Yes girls do want physical attraction too. So unless you can find an overweight woman who also wishes to date an overweight man you will be single. I would say it is much easier to find an overweight woman who is willing to be with an overweight man compared to the other way around. Many overweight men think they should have a supermodel and it's like "...really?" It's a good thing your hygiene is in check because some people out there are just disgusting.
Physical attraction is indeed very important in a relationship. Your height is fine but not the weight. If you were shorter it would be even tougher. It's hard telling someone why they don't want to be with them so hopefully you aren't mad at them for being non-confrontational about it.
You might want to heavily consider burning off as much as you can. Even if you're not concerned about looking like a model, your confidence will skyrocket which will raise your chances with women.1