I have what I think is a very nice profile on a few different sites nice pictures no reveling ones or anything like that and guys keep asking me too hookup with them. This is against my rules even tho I have not had sex in a while but I want something serious. What could I be doing wrong?
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I think Anonymous User has your solution. But I want to add that you want to be "firm and concrete" and not "loud and repetitive". I.e you want to say something like "There is no chance I am going to have sex/a hookup with guy who talks to me, this is something I wish not to be a part of." Not "GUYS GUYS PLEASE STOP BEGGING ME FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND! There is just so many jerks that think I will scoop so low to having SEX when I said that I am SPECIFICALLY said I am looking to get MARRIED! So in which case a-holes who cannot respect me and my choice need not contact me!"
Remember it's a dating site you want to express your views and interests, which at times such as this, require you to get rid of the men who are not suitable for you. But at the same time you don't want to give the rest of the men the wrong impression and scare *them* away and I can assure you if you overstep it will.0
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