I'm meeting with an ex this week and I think we're both interested in dating again.
I'm really nervous though and I'm wondering what kind of encouragement/advice you boys would give to a girl before we meet up again.
(My biggest fear is that I'll clam up and forget how to speak properly/listen actively . . . since that's pretty much what happened on the phone with him. Or that I'll start to shake and he'll see it!)
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Alright so you've dated before, obviously you've talked before and what not :P think of this as a fresh new start. If its been a while then you're probably both pretty different than who you were before! You're obviously something special and he realizes that and wants you back. Go into thinking that you're special that you are a girl that he is picking over many others. Be confident but sweet, you already know things about him so play to those but also get to know the new him. A good starter question "what's new?" And build off of that. If he played hockey before ask him "are you still playing hockey?" Itl be a breeze! Have fun out there and remember that just like you he's just another person lookin for a deep connection. Good luck and I hope all goes well :)0