Alright so let me tell you what is happening. I met this girl a few months ago during college and we ended going out for a bit, we have a lot in common and she is very beautiful, she actually approached me because she had a "crush" on me, anyway we'd text and talk regularly until she just suddenly stopped all contact. It surprised me at first but I moved on, although in the back of my mind I wondered at times why she stopped, maybe I did or said something wrong?
Well a few days ago out of the blue I got a text from her, literally 2 months after hearing nothing. She initiated the contact asking how I was, etc. I ended up texting her back and now she hasn't replied for several days.
Do you think she is playing games? If her intention was for me to think about her again she accomplished that.
Let me ask you girls, in general how long does it take you to reply to a text? I usually respond within an hour if I'm not busy but that's just me. Women are very interesting :)
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Some people are just like that -- perhaps there was some unresolved thing she had to take care of?
Also, when was the last time you texted her? Who was the last person to text whom? If you also made no attempt to contact her, she might have taken that as a lack of interest.
The length of time it takes me to answer depends on the time of day/week and if there's wifi available. For example, I *usually* answer within the half-hour unless my battery's dead or I'm in a "dead zone" of some kind. If someone doesn't hear from me in a week, they worry "Where are you? It's not like you!" (even if they've only known me for a few weeks...).
If it's during a busy workday or if I'm traveling, it takes longer, of course, but I usually get around to answering by the end of the day (or very early the next morning). Different people have priority response status, of course. If you don't hear from me within a week, I'm not interested. If I don't hear from you within a week, I presume that you're not interested.
If I give you a nudge via text, I expect an answer and vice versa, otherwise, the moment passes and we both move on.0