I'm 30 years old
She is 21 years old
Ok She gave me her number at my job and after about a week of trying to meet up with her I met her at her Job on a Friday night to go somewhere after
I get there and we are talking, smiling laughing then I had a drink, a lady came into the restaurant selling single roses as we were talking and I bought her one right on the Spot. So after we were heading to the destination having some laughs along the way and talking she decides she wants to do something else after getting to the destination. We ended up kissing ( no tongue and we were walking holding hands while walking. We end up going to my house so she could smoke some weed and she lays on my bed and gets comfortable I give her some sweat pants to change into and I am laying with her we kiss again twice more I start kissing her on her stomach but I didn't try and go any further as I didn't want to get her in the sack on the first date... She says don't let her fall asleep and says she has to go home because her aunt will start bitching at her so I take her home and we kiss goodbye. she says text me when you get home
I text her " Hey I just got home I really enjoyed spending time with you have a good night hope to see you later ". not sure if that was a smooth move or not
she text me back at one pm that day when she woke up
I ended up textin her the next day after I woke up " hey I jus woke up alil while ago I got home @7am I hope you have your day goes smooth @work. I'll be thinking about you :)
She never text me until the next day saying " hello " I then text her back saying " lets go to lunch " and she says " she can't because she has a dr's appt for her grandmother,has to go to her job to get something and hit the gym and buy some sandals " and than says " by the way I have your sweats and the shirt from you let me borrow the other day " I text back saying " saying sounds like you have a big day ahead of you I don't know if your gonna make it to the gym that's what you said last time but yeah I know you got my stuff no worries give it to me some other time " then I followed up with another text " I would like to see you again and spend time with you " and she Never replied then later that day in the evening I text her " Hey watcha up too " this happened on Monday...and I still haven't heard from her and now its Tuesday night Wednesday morning
To be Honest I like this girl and would like to possibly see where it goes but I am a little confused as what to do now with her none responsive texts
Should I just Not text her anymore until she than texts me back if she does at all or wait till I see her at the gym where I work to talk to her or give her a couple of days of radio silence from me ?
I D K... I Need some Advice ...
Any Comments or Suggestions Anyone...
Most Helpful Girl
She might be trying to figure out how she feels about being with you, or she might just not be as interested in you as you are in her.
If she isn't responding to your texts then don't keep sending more, that probably won't make her respond any faster. Wait for her to contact you... it doesn't sound like she's in any rush here.0
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