Virtually "met" this really nice guy on Match.com...by virtually I mean online, haven't met him in person yet... exchanged numbers (he messaged me first)... it's been a month, and all that has happened is him bringing up his interest in coming down to see me/hang out, we've gotten to know each other a bit... yet he hasn't called once. Last night I texted him and was trying to be honest, telling him I wasn't sure if I was really feeling this because I would've liked to talk on the phone or hang out by now, and that he seems pretty caught up with work and other stuff. He apologized and said he understood, but wanted to still arrange an afternoon to hang out over a cup of coffee some time, when he's in my area (he lives an hour away).
Did I make the right move? I mean if he was really interested, he would've called by now right? Again, it has been a month since we first messaged each other. If a guy is interested in a women, wouldn't he have made the first move by now?
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I think your move was totally spot on. I wouldn't continue over text message "relationship" with someone.1