I hear on here a lot that you should "never trust anyone online,
they're all liars" or "I don't take anyone on here seriously"
And, for online relationships people say "they could be
doing anything, you never really know" And, so I wonder.
Why use the Internet or this website, if you don't trust anyone,
don't take anyone seriously or don't consider the friendships (and
or other types of relationships you formed) real? Why bother? Aren't
you just wasting yours and other peoples time?
I guess, I'm just different. But, If nobody ever lied to
another person that they're around daily, there wouldn't
be people with trust issues, would there? If "in state"
relationship were SO great and fool proof, this website
(and other sites like it) wouldn't busy,would they? If finding
someone to date at work or at bar was SO easy, would
dating sites like E-Harmony and Match.com, be in business?
I think not! And, as far as friendship go. If this was the 1940's
(or whatever year you want it to be) and your class project was
to have a pen pal in another state or country. And, you and that person
wrote each other everyday. Would your friendship be any else real and
true than the friends you see on the daily? I don't think so. The only
difference you can't see that person day to day, but you're friendship
is still real and you could always go and visit each other (if you wanted
to and have the money to do so).
So, with all the in mind. Why use the Internet,hmm? And, if
liars, cheaters and so on and fourth ONLY happen online. Why
do people have SO many problems and why do relationships end
all the time? I'm just curious. Please, enlighten me!
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Because of all the negativity people live in. How many news companies would be in business if there was no murder, rape, or crime? People would not be likely to watch the news then. Yet they'll complain about how horrible it was that somebody was killed and so on. People have become their own victims of negativity and enjoy it when bad things happen now.
While some people online are liars with dating websites, it's easy to tell who is and isn't. I have been contacted by people online and have found out they were married. With girls and online dating they have an arsenal of guys to choose from but they typically don't have good decision making skills so the guy that bribes them with a dinner date or something high end tends to win but then she gets to the date and finds out the guy was using fake photos. If she simply met for coffee and didn't insist on emailing so much and went in with no expectations she would not have been let down. I find online dating would be so much easier if girls would just meet and not want to chat online all day accidentally making up an illusion of what the guy is in their head.0