We dated for a few months before he started to pull a cold fade, so I broke it off with him and we agreed to remain friends. While we made out a few times we never had sex and I told him I wouldn't either unless I was engaged (I'm a virgin). I heard he started to date another chick very soon after and I haven't heard from him for nearly 6-8 months.
Suddenly, in March, he texted a joke about how we stopped talking as soon as we stopped making out. Since then he would find an excuse to message me roughly once a month, either mentioning he misses me, or wants to hang out, or sees something that reminds him of me.
So my question is this: he knows I am not going to sleep with him so it can't just be a booty call, can it? While he asked to meet up I have been very busy and we haven't seen each other yet since the break up. I am still not sure if I want to see him either. So can anyone help with some insight on his behavior? Thanks!
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Sounds like you'd as soon leave him in the past. Because you have not made any effort to meet him I believe your subconscious has already made the decision for you. Let him make his text messages, forget to reply to them and move on.0