I've been with my man for a little over a year now. I like the guy a lot, no doubt. We aren't the average couple, in fact. You would never think we're a couple. We don't do any of that lovey Dovey bull sh*t. I'm not an attention whore, I don't need someone up my butt 24/7 lol but romance is needed, some romance at least. I get none! It's all about him all the time. So... I met a guy, and we started texting. He knows I have a boyfriend but we continued to text. All day everyday. We hit it off on so many levels. We were so comfortable with each other. After about a month of texting and hanging out like 3 times, I called it off because I felt really bad. I didn't tell my man about him, I just acted like nothing happened. But since then I haven't been able to think about anything but the other guy, or think that there is a guy out there who is even better for me. I mean, come on. I just want a cuddle buddy, someone to hold my hand every now and then and kiss me... Not a stick in the mud. Wtf do I do?
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You're clearly not happy with your relationship anymore. This is obvious.
So I recommend giving your guy a chance. Address the problems you have with the relationship. You don't have to tell him about how there's another guy who meshes with you, but I think you should tell him about what's making you unhappy about the relationship, and tell him that it's serious. Tell him what you need. Clearly and concisely. Maybe do it from a position of concern, with a hint of frustration.
So tell him what's up, and give him the opportunity to work things out. If things don't get better, I would recommend leaving, and finding that guy, with whom you mesh so well, and see about starting something with him, instead. I mean, you can easily just skip all that stuff I said in the beginning, and go right to being with that other guy you talked with, on the phone. You can. I just think it's a little more fair to give your boyfriend a second chance first. But if you don't want to go through that much trouble, I suggest leaving. As I said, you're clearly not happy.
So that's what I think your best plan is for your situation. Try to work it out, and leave if it doesn't pan out, or just leave if that seems like too much trouble.
Best of luck with this.5