What would be the best way to approach a woman within this age bracket?
I am 19 - a lot of my friends call me extremely photogenic, I'm 6'2 165 lbs with hazel eyes. Quite honestly I was a rather shy guy in the past, and I've been having some friends help me. The biggest problem is that all these friends that help me - want me to be a "player" in the sense that when you get the girl, you leave her... its ridiculous and I'm rather repelled by the idea.
My mother taught me to respect women which makes it a lot harder than the people that don't care about life in general.
Any tips off of what I've mentioned would be greatly appreciated. I'm trying to further advance my confidence so that some day I can actually approach that girl that may treat me how I want to be treated!
ArtistBBoy aka Kyle
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i know I'm not 18-21 but I know what I want and I have a lot of friends in that age bracket.
a gentleman. we all go crazy for a guy that will open the door for us or let us borrow his jacket
confidence, there isn't anything more attractive than a guy who likes himself and is willing to go out on a limb.
being genuine. something I hate is being showered with compliments, when I know that the guy is just trying to get something, or sound good. either you say what you mean when you mean it. or don't say it at all. (i.e. you look pretty today v.s. your body is the envy of the universe...you must be a goddess.)
dont play games. like your friend said, with the whole "when you get the girl leave her". <----- that right there is just plain stupid. doing stuff like that does not make us want you more, it makes us feel sad betrayed and we will probably hate you. also it does not make you look good because, we will tell our friends and they will think you are a jacka$$ too.
hope this helped, don't worry about it, listen to your momma she knows what she's talking about. and listen to what you think is right.1