Okay so I'm 17 and there's this girl I've been texting for probably two weeks. We have known each other since 9th grade. Well we have texted everyday and I love talking to her. I guess you could call me a needy person but I am working on it and I'm doing so much better. I always worry that I am being annoying. Like I could text her 24/7 . she's great. I usually ask her at night to text me the next day and she always does. And sometimes I text her too. The problem is I never know when to text her or how much.. earlier I told her to have a good day and to text me later. She said alright. Well I look so forward to it all day and she was on instagram so I texted and said hey what's up. Then I realized I shouldn't have done that if she said she would text me so I texted her again and said sorry I forgot talk to ya later. I get to attached to people I guess. she's the only girl I talk too.. please help me :( what can I do to stop worrying. She still hasn't replied. When and how should I text her. How often. Give me all the advice you can please.
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Wow I wish a guy would text me first, the guy I'm talking to now never starts!
But anyway, I think you should trying toning it down. If you talk to her everyday, see what would happen if you didn't text her one day.
You have to understand that people are busy during the day. I text my friends a lot, but if I am at a family party or at the movies or driving, then I get annoyed if someone texts me. I know this is an irrational anger, since they don't know that I'm driving when they send the text, but it still bothers me, and you don't want to do that to her. Also if she's at work or something then she may not be able to respond. So even if she enjoys talking to you, you don't want to take away that enjoyment because you are going overboard.0
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