He really wasn't a violent guy.
We broke up a little more than a week ago.
I know it's soon, but I am bored in my town and dating is something to do. JUST DATING not boyfriend right away or anything.
Should I cancel date because of ex boyfriend threats?
- YES call off the date14% (2)7% (1)11% (3)Vote
- NO go on the date86% (12)93% (13)89% (25)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Go on the date, but warn your date. Also, seriously look into pressing charges.
Gather as much evidence as you can, and if he's stupid enough to do this in front of you, try to get it on your phone. Don't even warn him that you're recording. Just record, go tot he cops, press charges, use it as evidence. In fact, be very sharp about getting evidence on his behavior . If you have any evidence of his threat anywhere, like on a message, a text, email or PM somewhere, save it. If he does anything to your new date, hold onto any shred of evidence you can. Seriously. Press charges.
But never let some psycho ruin your life. Never let anyone threaten you. Never let anyone attack you or hurt you, or anyone you care about. Just do what you want to do (so long as it doesn't break the law.) and if anyone does something as fucked up as this, then make sure there are repercussions for them. (Again, so long as those repercussions don't break the law).
So go on your date. He shouldn't be allowed to push you both around. Just give your date a heads-up.6