Me every morning and throughout day. Would always ask me to be his date to weddings. He would text me and I would ignore him tryin to play hard to get. I told him 2 weeks ago that I'm moving he all of a sudden stopped doing all the stuff and stopped talking to me and told me. So I texted him Friday and said "how are u" he ignored me then texted a few hours later saying "wanna f***" I said no and he goes "why text me then" was I being played this whole time or is something up with him he'll text me bak if I text him but will stop after a few txts? please help what should I do
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#1.Don't play games.Its best to be honest with your feelings instead of playing childish games like ignoring someone and taking them for granted.Sounds like he was being pretty nice to you,but you weren't exactly returning the favor.
#2.So you told him you are moving.He is probably thinking,"Well...she is kind of being rude anyway to me,AND she is moving,there is no reason to continue to invest in her like I was doing.But if I can sleep with her...fine.You have single handedly turned whatever you guys had into...a fling.Nothing more.
#3.He probably also thinking,why are you continuing to reach out,and you are leaving...what's the point of that?!Granted,he is sort of being rude now as well,but maybe in his mind it is warranted.
#4.Girl,don't try and play games and you have NO idea how to play.Playing hard to get does not mean you need to purposely disrespect and ignore a guy who is giving YOU all of the respect in the world.Playing hard to get means you are actually living your life,and actually BEING busy because you are doing constructive things in your actual life.It has nothing to do with being rude to anyone.Learn the game before you try to play.
#5.Lastly,whatever you guys had is...DONE.It is now SPOILED and don't expect to get him back either...I'm just being REAL.So...there's nothing left to do but pick up the pieces and move on.Learn from this.0