How come when a guy pushes a girl away, he comes back when she gives up and don't even think its important to contact him anymore? I was texting and calling everyday trying my best to get communication good, and all he did was things that would push me away. I just left him alone and felt he was not important to me anymore. I stopped calling and texting him, now he's blowing me up. But why do guys do this? I just have up and stop caring at the moment
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Have you heard of a saying , "Hungry dog never gets fed" ?
In a word…you do not want to show your neediness.
If you tell him you are lonely, feeling depressed over the break up…or even that you really miss him something like that…
Does this mean “play hard to get”?
Nope, it simply means you do not want to show or act needy.
Are you calling him 3 times a day?
You are acting needy…and you are killing your chances in dating.
So what should you do instead?
be self confident, somewhat aloof…and a woman who is going to get on successfully with her life…no matter what happens! (What you just did ,good job)
But most importantly…being and acting HAPPY! Knowing and showing that you have a future.
Ask yourself…what is more attractive?
A mopey, depressed person who can not stop bringing up how hurt she is over the past…
A girl…who seems like she is going to move on…is going to change herself for the better, is happy with life and MAYBE desires him still…but is not NEEDY…
You know,Nothing is sexier than this type of attitude and that's why they come back to you
Does that make sense? :)1