how can I go out with an guy in his early 20 's I'm 16 and find they are way more mature than guys my age.
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It's pretty easy, you go somewhere with him :P
If you want to attract an older, mature guy, you have to be mature yourself. It's getting more and more common for girls at 16 and 17 to begin dating 20-23 year old guys, and it's pretty obvious why.
If you want to get his attention you have to bring yourself up to his level so to speak (that's not a shot at you), you have to show him that your age isn't a factor. How you do that is up to you, but be yourself as best you can because if it turns into something serious you don't want to have to act like someone you're not.3