So I've been trying to give the girl I've been talking to time and we really like each other a lot like were both happy when were together she had recently came out a 3 year relationship with her first love ex that cheated on her me and this girl been talking already for one month give or take she told me she needed time cause its been 2 months since her breakup she wanted to take things slow with me but I kept pushing her and I messed up I asked her for one more chance cause I know I can do it I can wait for her and give her time but now I feel like I lost her and she won't text me nomore what should I do? I asked one of my close friends he's 47 so he has experience and I'm 22 and she's 20 she really likes me and is trying to give me a chance but I kept pushing it telling her I can't wait I really want to be with you but now I feel like I messed up and told her I couldn't wait what should I do guys? My 47 friend told me don't text or call her give her tme and space and if she texts you or calls you within 3 weeks that means she misses you if she doesn't she never really did like me..
yeah its officially done here what she told me : Just please stop writing to me you want me to be honest there you have it don't wait for me I don't want to be with you what we had yea it was nice but it's not like we were dating or even dating for years you act like we were just chill you'll find someone else. That's it it's over well I don't want to give you another chance were done-.- Julian just leave me alone. I screwed up she really liked me to what should I do guys I feel like sh*t :(
this sucks so bad man I really liked her a lot and now she wants me to leave her alone I felt complete with her like I could do anything with her :/
I want to know something if she really likes me but she doesn't want to talk to me anymore maybe when she forgets her pasts and is ready to date think she will give me a chance in the future again if she really did like me?
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First of all, learn what a sentence is. That is the longest sentence I've ever read. That was painful lmao.
Secondly, don't contact her. If she wants you, she'll come back to you. I'm sorry but from a girl's perspective, what you did was really off putting. After a break up like that, she was probably pretty broken and was trying to put herself back together to be whole again. Being pushed is the last thing she needed and I'm not surprised that she resents you. If she really liked you, she'll come back to you. But don't contact her. Contacting her will only make things worse.
You also have to consider that there's a possibility that you were a rebound, and she realized that she doesn't really like you.
I would leave her alone, listen to your friend.2
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