I went on one date with a guy who is studying behavior al psycology in University. I had previously told him that I was going on a few other dates with different men and if I liked one that then I'd only go on dates with him. Before he knew about this, he had been a little flirty and said he'd call me that night. After he found out He wasn't the only guy I had a date with, he didn't call that night, although he seemed to have no problem with what I had told him. So I met him up for a date, and things went quite well. I found him hard to read, but I could tell he was a really good guy with good intentions, who was looking for a serious relationship by the questions he'd ask and topics etc. He did not flirt with me though, or even make any comments on how I looked. I mentioned he hoped to see me again, once in person, and then once in text message. I let him know I felt the same way. I texted him a few times after that and for the second time, he asked me about the other dates and if I was also going on a second date with another guy. I could tell at this point it seemed to get to him, so I told him I'd stop dating other guys and just focus on him. He told me it didn't bother him, but that is was a concern. And that it meant a lot to him that I'd do that for him.
Why would it be a concern if a girl you only went on one date with is having a second date with another guy too? Is it cause he's worried he will like me, and then I will pick the other guy? Does he feel it's a waste of time to invest himself in a girl unless she's only seeing him? I'm not sure I fully understand, since I only had one date with him so far.
Anyhow, in addition, now that he knows I picked him, why is it that he still doesn't call me on the phone? He will text me and we will have conversations that way, but even when I suggested he should call me sometime, he ignored that text completely. He also doesn't flirt with me at all still. It doesn't feel like he's interested, yet he tells me he is and we have a second date planed. What doyou think could be going on in that head of his? He k ows many guys approach me on the street too, do you think he's being shy? Uninterested? Or like what?
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place yourself in the shoes a woman who is dating a guy who is also dating multiple women. Now tell us how you would feel about that? I thought of putting time into someone who may not even choose them makes anyone reluctant to show attraction or attention. He felt worried about this and still will until you make it official. He is playing you off like he does not care to get you to show him that you are really into him and he is the only one.0