so we had our first argument today and she claims that I don't talk to her enough even though we talk everyday. she was mad I didn't talk to her more yesterday when she was partying with her friends. I just thought that she wanted to have a girls night like she said so I didn't bug her I just told her to have a great time and that she deserves it. she told me that shed text me when she got home. I really hate texting if we phoned instead there would be no miscommunications. I tried texting her back but my text didn't go through so I guess she got really pissed off at that. today she was mad that I didn't talk to her enough even though I texted her when I got up and tried phoning her in the evening an textied then she didn't end up talking to me until a couple of hrs ago acting all pissed off and swore at me. apparently she didn't get any calls, bad reception or something. we just started going out last week. I'm just not sure if its going to work, she seems high maintenance and I'm just trying to back to school an I don't have much money. just seems to be a hassle, she willl be going to school to. I just don't know what to think, I want to make it work but I I'm having second thoughts. she's much younger than me. I don't know just venting I suppose
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well I think you need to try and forgive her if this is the first issue you've had. If it is the first issue you had it seems like a leap to go from like her to she is needy, this won't work.
that said if she is significantly younger than you (i'll assume several years) then you may need to consider if she seems mature enough to handle the relationship particularly with you leaving for school.
but I think in terms of the actual events you need to sit down and explain your side. show her your attempts to text her. then tell her look I know you were disappointed but that was a really ugly side of you I saw. I don't deal with and don't think I should have to deal wtih that kind of abusive treatment over a simple miscommunication.
good luck... texting can be problematic like you said. I agree why do people text convos that could be resolved in a minute or two with a simple phone call1