Hello guys, I am just curious in general how you handle it, when you are interested in a girl.
Let me first explain it from a female point of view: I am really secure and don´t have a problem to make a move or text at first, but sometimes I rather wait a few days, because I don't want seem clingy, though I am not up for playing games- I just don't want to scare him away. I read a lot of different answers on gag: Some guys like to chase, some hate that society expect men to make the first move, some feel good if the girl text, some interpret it as needy...uahhhhhhaaa how complicated is that? lol
And: Some guys tend to say, if they just starting dating, getting to know each other, if they don't call or text for a few days, it necessarily hasn't to mean anything...but for us girls (the most of us) it is a little bit different: When I am interested in someone, no matter if I am crazy in love or just like this guy...I would never forget to answer or wait till I text, because I like the communication going on.
I know it is a difficult field and everybody handle it a little different, but maybe you guys can give me some hints.
And another question: Is texting everyday a sign he is seriously interested, or can a guys seriously be interested even if he is not texting everyday?
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I agree with cromartie, everybody says stuff on here how they would like them to be or how they believe them to be, not how hey truly are or how they would really handle things. I could tell you that guys even if they are confident they find it hard to chase a girl hey really like, but in reality he could not like you at all or he could like you as a friend but still has some doubts about getting close to you. What we say doesn't matter, because even if we are right and he likes you he could still not pursue you, or do something to make your relationship happen0