It seems like if you are a guy your messages get ignored. Also the women who want to send you messages never message you and or you are not attracted to them or their personality. The person you want has like 30 guys hitting on her and she goes out with at least 7 of them and one of them is not you lol.
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Why is online dating so bad?
Possibly because many people that are on online dating are undesirable, there's a consumer culture where people are often seeking the bigger better deal, guys tend to outnumber gals, and it seems most guys tend to overlook the vast majority of gals and focus on the most attractive ones ala studies like OK Cupid Your Looks Your Inbox where 2/3 of male messages go to 1/3 of the most attractive gals.0