Curious to know if it justified to look at past relationships...
I am dating a girl but I don't really feel like she likes me that much. By the way I use "dating" in a sense of the pre-stages to a relationship, nothing official just dating but we have been friends for 4 years now and dating 3 weeks or so.
However, my main concern is just through conversation I know quite a bit of her ex boyfriends, some personally others not so much, but the type of guys she has talked to in the past (recent past) is nothing like me. They are the more rough type and I'm the more chill type.
I said that to say overall I think she has been "trying" to like me more but I feel like she is trying to force it. The reason I say that is because her mother loves me and thinks her daughter should be dating me. They have gotten into arguments over that.
It apparent I like her more than she likes me but I don't want to be naive to what's really going on. Something just doesn't feel right. For example, two days ago I picked her up and the car ride conversation was really dry. In fact I always have to lead the conversation or it will just be extremely silent so this specific day I was tired of always having to lead the conversation so I decided I would endure the silence. I drove 20 minutes saying nothing and neither did she. The whole drive she entertained social media (instagram, Facebook)
So little things like that kind of makes me think.
What do you guys/girls think?
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oh yes definitely. I mean, not toooo much but to a certain extent.
it is wrong in my opinion because I think each relationship should be a fresh start and your date wouldn't want to be compared to anybody else, you know?
yeh sometimes girls have that tendency to do it more, I know this might be irrelevant but even Usher wrote a song called His Mistakes about this very issue- guys don't want to be compared to anyone else.
in my opinion, if it don't feel right, don't do it. its that simple, we all make love so complicated for no reason. there are definitely things that do make us think but itll come down to how you weigh out the positives and negatives. whichever one outweighs the other, then you know what you need to do.
hope this helps x =]0