The guy I have been dating for a little while is distancing himself. When we aren't together, we text (not talk on the phone). Over the past week, he's not as quick to answer my texts, he's not suggesting we hang out anymore and he did not respond to my most recent text 2 days ago of "How's your weekend going?" I've been thinking that I want to let him know what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling---mostly that I enjoy doing things with him, being close to him and I'd really like to continue dating. And then let him decide if he feels the same.
Is it better to say something like that through a text or an email? Or does that even matter? I would prefer face-to-face, but I don't think I'm going to get the chance to do that.
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I would say don't read into it too much because some people just don't like connecting over the phone... my ex, for example. would take hours to text me back or send one word responses and I would be all paranoid he was upset. But when I saw him in person he'd be all excited and happy... he said he just doesn't pay attention to that kind of contact, that he only really connects in person.
That being said, if you notice a considerable change (he used to text you a lot but now he doesn't), then I would say he is distancing himself because maybe he isn't as interested as before.
Of course it would be better in person, but if you can't, I'd say do it over text since that's been your main mode of contact thus far.1