We've been togetherish on and off for 3 years but we've never officially dated. As of now, we were on the verge of dating but then he freaked out - he said he was afraid we would fail or that I would resent him if we had to move for his job.
I told him that those are things you can't predict. How can I convince him that it'll be okay?
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after 3 years he should already know if he wants to be with you on a permanent basis,he will continue to take whatever you give him..u must set a cut off date, you sound more like a bootie call and if you are happy in a non committed relationship , stay but if you want more(and you should)you need to tell him straight up that you deserve more and if he doesn't want to give that to u,you must move on, it will hurt but if he lets you go, he was bound to do it anyways and you have your answer,but the writing is already on the wall that's why you are here.0