As my name suggests I'm not able to get a date. In the last 3 months the 600+ women I approached/messaged in an attempt to get a date with them all rejected me.
A lot of people (online, not people I know) say I must have too high standards and should lower them if I want to get a date. However the only women I don't go for are obese women. We aren't talking a bit overweight, we are talking UK size 18 and above.
Is it unfair of me to complain about not getting a date when saying I wouldn't date these women?
I should add that I don't know whether these obese women would date me, its very possible that they wouldn't anyway.
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Nothing wrong with that, You should date who you're attracted to. You've got to realize that most dating sites are over-run with men and have very few women. Women receive hundreds of messages a week. They just have to pick the best guy out of them. So you never get classified as the best. That's a reasonable outcome for even any above-average guy.
Try focusing on meeting women in real life. There are too many guys online and the reality is women are more reluctant to go online. It's more likely for a woman to be considered desperate for trying online dating whereas guys can just claim their looking for sex. So guys have resorted to only approaching women online and women are sitting around in the real world wondering why no guy ever approaches her. I know we could always approach guys ourselves but we don't really have to. Eventually someone will come along who's brave enough to do it old school. I'm not saying it should be this way but it is.0
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