I DON'T THINK A GIRL HAS EVER BEEN REJECTED LIKE THIS AS MUCH AS I HAVE! I'm 23 never even kissed! I was basically "in love" with this guy from university=nothing happended butstaring I've been on like 5 dates all first dates with different guys from online and they all rejected me one way or another. Some were nicer about it and some were just very mean. I won't go into details too much to type out but these days were through the course of one year and I deleted my account now a total of 3 times online.
I closed my last account a few months ago but still ended up texting a guy for the last couple months. Let's call him Aaron. He seems nice, funny and I totally lowered my standards because he doesn't seem as ambitious he's almost in his 30's and now enrolled in university to get his sh*t together. He wanted to meet up a lot when we talked for the first month or so but I kept saying I was busy which I was but basically I was too scared to go on a date because of how mean the last guy was to me. Finally I'm ready to meet this guy. Last week we finally added each other on Facebook. He seems like a hot party kind of guy and I'm not. I'm pretty much inactive on Facebook but I don't look anti-social or anything I have random tags with friends in pics and posts. I told him I'm not really active anyway. Since that happened he's stopped talking to me really. I'm the first one to text him, its just not the same tone as before. His responses used to be instant and now there's like an 6 hr delay and I know he's using his phone because on whatapp he's online frequently. The times I did text him first he would always reply "Hey beautiful/gorgeous" but now he just just says "hey what's happening?" or something like that. Then I met another guy in person last week on the train home at night. He was a bit intoxicated but we talked for a bit a guy in real life actually asked me out lol Anyway we tried coordinating plans and he is saying the place I'm saying to meet is too for away for him like 25 min or more. I'm like I don't have away to go further right now. He said he'll message me after a certain time today and he never got back to me. I seriously feel very hopeless. I've put myself out there, I'm always groomed and casual nice dressed when I go out, read articles/YouTubed about dating/flirting I'm a good hearted person and I honestly really deserve a break. Currently, I'm working on loosing 20 lbs (I'm a little overweight) but I'm tall so its proportionate. I'm working on my career as I recently graduated and I need to focus on finding a good job and then going on to eventually do my masters. I don't know what hell to do. I've put myself out there, been to a gazillion parities and student group involvement throughout school. I've done online...and everything to maybe meet someone as before when I didn't do anything I never went ona date (before online dating). Is finding dates or a eventual relationship just never meant to happen for me *tears*
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Don't give up. There are guys out there who would love to go out with you its just a matter of time before you find a good one. But don't just wait fro them to come to you. There's a huge gene pool worth of guys out there and if you only wait (Not saying you're doing this) for them to come to you, you might get stuck with meh guys.
I advice that you keep working in your self image. You can do things like working out and doing well at work/school. If you do these things and improve your image/self esteem guys will take notice.0