I just don't drink alcohol. Not at all ( includng wine). And I just got out of a very long term marriage. Now I want to date again, my question is mainly for girls .
Could you imagine a romantic date ( that could possibly turn sexual ) without alcohol? ( This is the question of the poll)
another question is .. would you feel strange if your date doesn't want to drink but you decide to drink any way ?
- Definetly!Vote A
- Not sure.Vote B
- Nope!Vote C
- See resultsVote D
Most Helpful Girl
Sure you can have a great, seductive date without alcohol. To be honest, the first couple times I go out with someone, I like to leave alcohol out of it for the most part. And I definitely want us both to be sober when we're sleeping together for the first time. I always feel like it's more romantic when you're not fuzzy on the details because you had a couple drinks. It also leaves me questioning the encounter less since a) I know he didn't just ply me with alcohol to get laid and b) I know he was perfectly aware of what was happening and we were both consciously taking that next step.
As for drinking if the guy I'm with doesn't drink- it'd be fine with me. I'm not about to get hammered during a date, but if I want a drink when we're out for dinner, I'd order it even if he was sticking with water or whatever. If we were out with friends and social drinks were there, I'd still drink if I wanted to. I don't drink ALL the time (perhaps once or twice a week) and it's usually only one or two drinks at most- once or twice a year I get a little tipsy. To me, the choice to drink or not drink is a personal one and it doesn't have any bearing on a person's attractiveness as a date. Unless of course you have a drinking problem- then it'd be an issue.2