I went out on a date with a 39 years old guy, his absolutely
Beautiful, such a good looking guy he looks like his 33 34
Am 21, the date went great! I got tipsy and he didn't try
To take advantage of that at all, when other men my age have.
Question is, how can I know his truly a good guy and not
An ads hole whos looking to have sex ?
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Well I can tell you my experience with something similar. I dated a woman that was almost ten years younger than me. At first I thought she was only about three or four years younger (she thought I was only about 4 or 5 years older) but then after we had started going out on dates she gave me her ID to set up some insurance for a trip we were going on and we figured out that there was a huge age difference. Granted not as much as you guys but still I had never dated anyone that young before. The thing was everything was going great before and after no difference. She was a bit more mature than I would have expected and you could say that I don't really hang out much with my age group and I guess we some how meat in the middle.
I can honestly tell you that I was in love with this girl and I was really happy because we connected really well. Yes of course I was madly attracted to her and sleeping with her was also on my mind a lot but it wasn't just that I really had fun with her and had a warm and fuzzy feeling when I was with her.
After we found out about our age difference things didn't actually change. I mean I felt really great that I was able to attract a beautiful woman like that and that much younger I couldn't imagine why and from what we discussed she was really happy spending time with me because I was fun and more mature than her age group and still great company so she had fun too. And as for the sex I can tell you that it was great I felt like a teenager again and she said that she hand had sex like that ever and she felt great.
If it wasn't for my own problems and stupidity with screwing up everything we'd probably still be dating.
So I say if you're worried try to find out or at least talk to him about your concerns. You need to know that things might not work out but still in either case you might be missing out on a good relationship and like someone else has already stated would it make a difference if you slept with someone younger and then didn't have a relationship. So see where it goes and if it doesn't work figure out what went wrong and don't bother too much about it and remember you had fun while it lasted and a new experience.
Good luck :-)2