When a girl runs across a nice, well behaved, well mannered guy, she claims he is boring or too feminine, most of the time at least, then you find her dating really low class guys that will literally say anything. Sexist remarks, racial remarks, just being all round a**hats. Doesn't matter if they're joking or not, I don't find it acceptable. They'll likely also smoke or drink a lot, also associated with being low class.
It's really funny actually how a lot of girls here are quick to label guys that have been nothing but good guys their whole lives but have struggled with women (that may be a little upset about it) to be misogynists but are then somehow OK with guys that behave and make highly trashy remarks!
Has anyone else noticed this? It's also everywhere in our media. To be a man means to act out in ways that are ultimately really low, and sometimes what I would consider primitive, even sub human ways. A socially aware, conscious, and emotionally developed man would never act out in these ways, so why are men like this constantly avoided in dating? It's very disturbing to me.
People are so dumb these days I swear.
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Men today, both trashy and well mannered ones have no idea what masculinity is at all.
The only difference between the classy ones and the trashy ones is that the classy guys act like women, and the trashy guys like children.
Since masculinity really means dominance, protection, power and leadership, the guys who act like spoiled little boys and are very self serving and demanding, provide the dominance part. They ridiculously demand things out of women as well as everyone else. This gives women an illusion of masculinity and women end up attracted to them.
In the world of nothing, to these idiots, an illusion of masculinity is something.
Classy guys stand no chance since they, on top of not knowing what masculinity is, are too kind and principled to act like whiny children. So classy guys can't even offer dominance alone as an illusion of masculinity. And this is why they loose.
To a naive eye I'll translte, the more popular terms instead of the ones OP is using, trashy and classy, are bad boys and good "guys".0
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