I'm 28, got out of a serious relationship a year ago and finally have decided to start dating. WOW, I'm out of the loop! I am considered a very attractive guy and I am definitely outgoing so getting numbers and setting dates are not the problem, its the actual date itself.
I think I may come across as : too eager, or have been too honest...trying to hard to make a conversation.i guess because I don't know what to expect, do or say. Probably because I am LOOKING for a relationship.
what do I do? suggestions?
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I can feel your agony sir. I too am in this situation, I'm just not ready to date anyone yet, due to my commitments to furthering my education, bettering my employment. I would say I don't think you can ever be too honest with anyone. Some would disagree, but I've always slept soundly because of that very principle. Aside from that, dating is very...awkward to say the least sometimes. What has helped me in the past was a new found belief in the success of being non-conventional. What that means is, try activities that your certain both have never done. Something very unique and abstract. Something a date partner has always wanted to do, but has always overlooked. I have tried this and from what I gather, everyon had fun. They came back for a second date, so I guess I was doing something right. Skip the movie, skip the dinner, make her go paintballling on a belly full of ham and cheese sandwhich! nothing says first date fun like a few paint covered welts and bruises on the skin and a bag of doritos...I hope this helps. - j p.s. You would be suprised how many chicks love to shoot others with paint ball guns...It's such a weird transition to watch before your very eyes.0