I am gathering opinions because why not.
Awhile back, a girl I met a few months earlier started asking me to go dancing with her on Facebook.
I mean with messages saying we should dance with winky faces.
A few days ago, I got her number, gave her a call, and told her I wanted to dance with her...as a date.
She was like "I'm actually seeing someone right now." (not surprising, she seems like a bit of a serial monogamist)
She then continued on to say, "But I still TOTALLY want to dance, and I'm flattered that you asked me out on *date*...I'm actually kind of..."
I then asked her what she was kind of.
She followed up with,
"I'm really flattered you asked me out on a date."
I laughed, because that was clearly not the kind of.
(Background on emphasis on date: I have made out with a couple of her friends...including, I think, her best friend. Specifically NOT dating them. Like, corrected them when they called themselves my date.)
Anyway, what do you think? Does she like me, yea or nay? I'm not hinging on it, but my own assessment would be "Somewhat to fairly interested, would consider dating in the future".
Which is honestly where I am with her -- I am super picky about the personalities/character of the women I date, and she's one of 2 (well, definitely 2nd place on that spectrum) I'd consider dating that I've met in the last 6-8 months or so. How much I'm into her kind of hinges on what she does with herself for the next year or two of her life, so I'm in no big hurry.
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I think she's interested because she agreed to go on a date with you, I also think she's either about to end things with the person that she's seeing OR things aren't going well so she is keeping her options open, hence why she agreed to go on a date with you.. keep your distance and don't get too emotionally attached but show her a good time, see how it pans out0
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