I have gone out with a guy a couple of times and, although I was the last one to ask if he wanted to grab some drinks after work, at the end of the date, he leaned in to kiss me (our first kiss). He actually kissed me a fews times after I kissed him back, so I would think that says he's interested in me.
But between dates we barely text (he never initiates it) and there are a few times he just hasn't responded to texts I've sent him.
Yesterday we text briefly to make plans to see each other this coming week. Later last night, I sent a quick text just saying that the new place we chose looks like a lot of fun, and I'm excited. He didn't text me back. Then today, I text him and commented on the game, but again, he didn't respond.
Should I read his lack of responses and lack of texting me as a warning that he isn't as into me as I thought, or do some guys just not like to text?
From my perspective, I like texting him because I am really enjoying getting to know him and we have fun together. Any chance to talk is a chance to learn more about each other---even if it's just a few short texts. Should I stop texting him, or should I tell him that I like hearing from him?
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From my POV as a guy, I think he may be trying out some hard to get. He might be trying to get you to chase him instead of him chasing you, which would come off as clingy/desperate.
I suggest that you take 1-3 days of no contact and see what happens. If he texts, calls, ignore it. And after that time, text him and tell him that you've been really busy/etc. But don't give him too much.0