I'm really busy with work at the moment, I'm already seeing someone, I'm leaving overseas, have so much on my mind that I'm not dating material...there are plenty of reasons...I'm being honest that I like him, but I'm also not able to date him, how NOT to crush his heart? how to flatter him while giving my reasons?.
How would a guy I like feel if I told him that I liked him but I couldn't date him?
What Guys Said 2
Easiest way is to give him a future specific time that you will no longer be as busy as now. If you tell him to go away and do not give him any hope of seeing you in the future, it is no different from a direct refusal. Be specific, tell him that in March things will have quitened down and you would love to go on a date with him.
If you do not want to, or cannot give him a timeframe for your unavailability, then you may as well tell him no quickly and directly.0
If you want it clean, be direct. "I can't date you because I don't want a relationship with you".
This way there is no hint he could change anything, and even if it hurts a little, it will limit the heart-breaking factor.0
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