Long story short...I'm seeing this guy nothing serious but we have sex occasionally. He texts me daily and tonight while we were texting he made a comment saying. He was going to call him a stripper or a girl for the night I told him to have fun and he may end up falling in love with the stripper. He replies with yep cause your being stingy yours...I don't get why would he say such a disrespectful thing?
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"Also I thought he had true feelings for me"
And this is your problem right here. You are in a FWB relationship, but you secretly want/hope for him to have feelings for you, and you are having to face that, in fact, to him it's JUST SEX, and that if he can't get it when he wants it, then he's going to look for it elsewhere. Still, it's JUST SEX and NOT NOT NOT a relationship or an emotional connection for him. You should NOT ever expect to get that from a FWB relationship, because, by definition, that's what a FWB is NOT.
If this was just sex to YOU, like it is with him, none of this would bother you. You'd shrug and let him go on his merry way. The reason it bothers you is that you've developed some feelings for him, which is NORMAL and COMMON for most women, and it means that, like most women, you aren't able to have FWB relationships without developing feelings, so you shouldn't try. You are a relationship-type of girl, and so that's what you need to be looking for.
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