I know, this sounds so silly, why would a pretty girl have trouble dating? But let me explain.
Girls, especially attractive ones, can be seen as sex objects to guys and this, in turn, makes a guy take her less seriously. I know plenty of guys who just wanted to hook up with me and not bother getting to know me. Yes, I did find guys who wanted to date, but that didn't happen as often.
I was talking with my guy friend about this and he said it can be hard for pretty girls, because a lot of guys either see them as too intimidating and so don't approach or think they are out of their league to date or they know that a lot of guys give them attention and are afraid that they would lose the girl if they dated.
I'm curious as to what your thoughts are on this.
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The downside is hearing "I didn't think you'd be interested in me" because everyone's going to be "out of my league" to someone. I don't think I'm all that, but a lot of the guys who I thought weren't into me later fessed up that they thought I was too pretty or too smart or whatever to date them.
And these were fine guys! They were just insecure about themselves!
I have watched how an overtly pretty girl in a bar or singles club will get approached or ignored by certain men... guys who think they have to run game on women or guys who just want to see if they have any shot whatsoever. Thing is, pretty girls aren't mindless vapid people, they want love in their lives too.
Sometimes I think the best answer to cure the problem is for a pretty girl to approach whomever she's interested in and spark off the conversation so it's OBVIOUS to a guy they are being approached because they are definitely within her league. :)0