I mean, really. We've been on ONE date. He texted me tonight and asked if he could ask some personal questions. I said sure. He asked if I was a virgin and how many guys I've been with. Doesn't that seem kind of odd for after one date? I mean, don't people discuss those things after... several? Or when they're actually in a relationship?
Went on one date with a guy and he wants to know if I'm a virgin/how many guys I've been with? Is that weird?
What Guys Said 6
Not weird... Maybe it wasn't the right time to ask the question.0
It is definitely too early to start asking questions like that. Maybe he's a player or a swinger. That better have been your last date with him.0
What Girls Said 4
either he's one of those guys who thinks a girl is worthless and used if she's not a virgin (yet hypocritically thinks its fine for him not to be a virgin whilst expecting different from her) and is trying to find out how much of a slut you are by how many guys youve been with
hes overly nosey and not very subtle
hes interested to see if a lot of guys (that youve slept with) means itll be easier to get into your pants
either way that's very rude of him to ask without leading the conversation around to exes (3rd or 4th date stuff) and then gently slipping in how many he's been with and letting you opt in to reply with yours0
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