Friday night I was at a bar with some friends and a guy approached me. We talked for a few minutes and he asked for my number so I put it in his phone. But it's now Sunday and he hasn't texted me. Will he or was it just kind of like a flake thing?
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Of course guys text girls they meet in bars,
But you have to understand that many approaches that guys make (whether in a bar or some other place) are practice approaches. In a practice approach, it doesn't necessarily mean that the guy has no interest in you, but the primary purpose of the approach is to practise his flirting skills. Unfortunately, most guys aren't naturally charming; so they have to practise. I'm not necessarily saying this was a practice approach; I just don't know. I know many girls claim that guys who approach in bars aren't looking for anything serious. If that's what you're implying, that's just not true. Many guys simply don't have the confidence to approach unless it's in a bar, partly because it's more socially acceptable to approach in that environment, and partly because alcohol reduces nerves.1