Long story short...I've been seeing this guy we haven't made anything serious. We are cool and was having sex at one point occasionally but nothing for the past two months. Anyways... His birthday was last week which I wasn't aware...ironically we had a disagreement the day before his birthday and I told him I wasn't talking to him anymore. Well I ended up texting him this weekend and he replied with you can text me now but you couldn't text me this week for my birthday. Do you think he was actually bothered by this?
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A simple happy birthday text would have sufficed and because you'd be coming from a "I'm putting my anger on the back-burner and I'm doing this because I care" sort of stance, you'd likely be in a better place then the current. Might have even led to beginning of a resolution.
At the very least it couldn't be used against you later and it's a display of affection and effort which is always nice in a relationship. Admittedly I'm pretty bad at that but we're all a work in progress.0
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