So I'm a white dude who grew up in a pretty white area with not a lot of minorities. I've only dated white chicks, well one half Asian too.
Then I go to grad school and I meet this amazing gal. she's black, and she is beautiful, smart, and fun. We have been friends for a bit, but have definitely been "talking." I asked her out on an official date this weekend and she agreed, and I just was a bit curious about maybe anything I need to keep in mind as regards to me not having spent too much time with the darker Americans here.
My current game plan is to treat her like I've treated every other gal I've dated, and just completely ignore her race. Is that acceptable? Also, this question isn't racist in my head, but it probably is haha. I'm just trying to not screw up over here!
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Just because she's black doesn't mean you have to try to fit in with what you think a black girl looks in a guy or whatever your trying to Do. She's not any different just because she's black its what you see is what you get. She is the way she is now and there no difference. Your defiantly over thinking this. If you treat her differently just because the color of her skin it will not go well. I'm mixed and guys try to impress me by telling me they dated black girls before or something like that and its so dumb like oh? Cool you think you know me because you dated other black girls? Doesnt work that way. We are all individual's and even though black people have stereotypes so do white people and not all people fall under thoses categories0