I am a black American and I am interested in dating some White American women. However, approaching black women and white women is completely different..
For example white women seem to always act strange/weird when I approach them and I'm talking about before I even really get into conversation. There eyes be like O.O. or something white women act kind of scared or something.
I don't know what it is. I go to a university so it not uncommon to see girls in passing... sometimes I am like hey wassup and then she responds nicely but when I try to further the conversation with something like how are you doing? Its like then they look at me like "umm why are you talking to me" or creeped out or something.
Versus a black American tend to be receptive to conversation and what you do with that conversation is typically the deciding factor
White women it seems like they are creeped/weirded out by the very notion of being approached.
So my question is what advice do you have to either help me understand white woman better or approach white women better? Why do I generally get those reactions? It seem like its hard to just walk up to a white girl and start up some conversation
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they don't want some random black guy approaching them. unless you have social proof. if you're an acceptable member of their peer group (a token clean cut black guy that is friends with their friends) or rich or notably popular/high status they won't really accept you.0