I've been single for over a year now. I work so much and when I'm not working I'm studying and I just haven't been able to go out and meet new people. My friend told me to join OKcupid, so I did. Surprised by how nice and in-depth the actual site is. That being said I've gotten tons of messages like "Hey girl...lemme show you my d***" and then genuine messages from guys that I know we don't mesh well enough for things to work out, or I'm not attracted to them all that much.
I finally started talking to a decent seeming guy. Met him today and it was a total disaster =/. I couldn't wait to leave. It feels like I'm going to go another year totally single waiting for the right guy. I think part of my problem might be the bad selection of men in my city, but in any case, what have your experiences been with online dating? What about those of you who never seem to find enough hours in the day? How do you find relationships in that situation?
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in all honesty, online dating is pretty much scrolling through pictures until you find a person you find attractive enough to talk to. it's kind of like online shopping because people just compare pictures when selecting who to talk to. girls definitely have it easier than guys though, it's pretty tough to get a girl interested when she has hundreds of guys sending her messages.
i'd recommend using sites like match or eharmony because most people on there are looking for relationships. I think okcupid, pof, etc. are kind of like hook up sites.1