So the guy I'm dating is Chinese... The other day we were talking about our parents' perspectives on their children's relationships, and I asked him whether or not his mom would be okay with him dating a non-asian... And he said that he wasn't sure... Is that an indication that he's not really serious about me, since he knows that his family might not approve?
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No its an indication that he believes his mom will be slightly racist toward you not being asian.
(( If he was so drop dead serious about following whatever family wishes/customs that may be in effect he wouldn't even be with you now ))
I don't see why it matters, If you like him and he likes you that's all that should matter.
Im black and I've been with women whos mom's/racists dads did not approve at all. Only major effect was it made it alil harder to hangout since we had to go to my house or out somewhere.
Does he give you other signs aside from your question that he doesn't? Does he seem disconnected from you or something? How long have all been dating?2