I am writing this after after ending my relationship with my boyfriend of 8 years (we parted one year ago). Back onto the what is now “modern” dating scene which is very different and trying online. I am finding that the majority of males who contact me have absolutely no sense of etiquette whatsoever, I don’t write anything risqué and keep my emails upbeat and realistic that should not lead to the sort of email I am receiving. These guys feel they can say anything in an email when they are trying to get you to go out with them. If they said those things to women in a Wine Bar or even attempted to do any of the things they had written they would be arrested, getting slapped would be let of lightly!
Is this because they are hiding behind the secrecy of their PC and they get rude and abrasive or are they actually really like that? Or the possibility of being online they feel free to take on a fantasy or a different persona?
Thoughts and experiences would be appreciated! Thanks in advance
Oh where did all the nice boys go ?
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Where did all the nice guys go? I could provide you plenty of theories but dusky you can't tell me that NO "nice men" have messaged you. In fact those sex solicitations are few and far in between.
Most of the nice time it's not mr nice guy, it's mr head turner. With all the emails women recieve it so easy o hold out and wait for someone of high caliber.1