How many of you do the latter? I'm really interested in seeing how this is distributed between men and women!
Is it kinder to reject someone outright or to give them the chance they want because you sense "potential" (though not necessary feelings)?
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If I date a girl that means I like her. it does not mean we are compatible or that we will have a relationship. Since I approach more than I get approached I will generally like a girl before she likes me. I don't cold approach girls. I get to know them a little or test the waters through flirting. If she seems to be reciprocating I date. If she is not I move. If you as a girl are just not feeling a guy and make a spot judgement call then make one as it is better than seeing if he will grow on you1