So I've been dating this girl for a month now. We are not exclusive and neither of us have pressed the subject. Anyways she has had some stressful days at work and I was thinking about sending flowers to hopefully cheer her day up some but I didn't know if it would make her feel like I'm pressuring her to be exclusive or if she would feel uncomfortable with receiving flowers at work from a guy that is not officially her boyfriend. So is it a bad idea to send flowers or good idea? Also if it is a good idea what are the best type of flowers to send as I don't want to ask her what her favorite type is and alert her to my plan?
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As a girl, I personally think this would be a bit much for me. You said it yourself: you've only been dating a month and aren't exclusive. It's a nice gesture, but a bit over-the-top for someone you've just started dating.
Granted, that's just me, though, and how I would feel if I were her. It's hard to say if she would agree. So, if you do decide to send flowers, as a florist myself I would just suggest calling a local shop and letting them use their designer judgement. Give them a price point and mention that you don't want anything that reeks of too much romance (i.e., no red roses).0